Interview With Sook Nyul Choi, Author of Halmoni and the Picnic¹
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In addition to being a celebrated children's storybook author, you are a
parent, a former schoolteacher, and a Korean American. How did each of these
perspectives shape the story of Halmoni and the Picnic?
When I wrote Halmoni and the Picnic, I drew on my own experiences as
a schoolteacher in New York City. I spent many years teaching all grades, from
very young children to high schoolers. Whatever age group I taught, I tried
to form a connection not only with the school children, but also with their
families.
I would encourage children to invite their family members into the classroom
and on class field trips. Sometimes students thought their family members wouldn't
fit in, but I would tell them that parents, relatives, and especially grandparents
have experienced a lot in life, can teach us a lot, and are a lot of fun to
be with. I sent home notes inviting all the family members. The family members
were so delighted that they were wantedand we had so many wonderful experiences.
While children in other classes were eating bologna sandwiches for lunch, the
parents or grandparents of my students would bring in fresh fruit, baked goods,
or even hot food to share for the children's lunches.
The parents and grandparents shared many wonderful stories with the children
about how things were when they grew upsome in America and some in foreign
countries. The family members also enjoyed getting to meet and talk with each
other. We took many field trips together to Central Park and local historical
sites like Theodore Roosevelt's birthplace.
What message would you hope that all children and families come away with
after reading this book? In particular, what message would you hope children
and families from diverse cultures come away with?
I want children to know that each of their family members is important and
can make great contributions to a rich, fun learning experience. All family
members, no matter what their cultural or ethnic background, have a great deal
to contribute and can be welcomed and embraced by the learning community. Even
if language appears to be a barrier at first, there are many ways to communicate
across languages and include family members in a wonderful, diverse learning
environment for all children.
Do you think children's stories can bring children, families, and schools
together across differences? If so, how?
Yes, I think children's stories can make an important contribution toward bringing
people together. A story can give a family the chance to sit together and start
talking, opening up a conversation from a small insignificant event to what
really matters to them. It provides a way to start a discussion. Before you
know it, they're talking with each other about their feelings about the book,
and they become closer. Similarly, in a school context, a story can help children
open up their feelings to their teachers and classmates, or a story can help
the class empathize with some of the challenges with which an individual student
might be struggling. The storybook can act as a little ambassador of sorts.
In Halmoni and the Picnic you give a moving example of how a teacher
helps students learn about cultures different from their own and makes a family
member from a different culture feel comfortable. Based on your years of teaching
and parenting, can you talk about what teachers can do to teach children about
different cultures?
Teachers are incredibly important role models. Children always look to what
their teachers are doing, how they respond to people, and how they react to
different situations. By setting the example of embracing different cultures,
being welcoming to new students, and celebrating different traditions, teachers
send a powerful signal to students about how to value and learn from new experiences.
Children tend to be comfortable doing what is familiar to them, but if they
see a teacher trying something new, like tasting a new food or introducing a
new tradition to the class, they are more willing to try it too. Simply by being
open and receptive to new ideas, new people, and new cultures, teachers can
be powerful role models and leaders in teaching tolerance and acceptance.
Your story also portrays a child as actively encouraging her grandmother's
involvement in the school. What do you see as children's roles in connecting
home and school?
If supported and encouraged to do so, children can act as a bridge to help
teachers and families understand each other. When I was a teacher, my schoolchildren
came from many different types of familiessome were raised by single parents,
some were adopted, some were raised by their grandparents. Because they had
an accepting, open environment in the classroom, children felt comfortable talking
about their families and their backgrounds. That helped us teachers understand
better the challenges and concerns those families might be facing. Teachers
cannot do everything alone. We need children and parents and friends and others
to work together to build a learning community. We all need each other.
¹ Choi, S. N. (1993). Halmoni
and the picnic. Boston: Houghton Mifflin. In the story, a student worries
that her classmates will make fun of her Korean grandmother, Halmoni, who has
agreed to chaperone the class at a picnic in Central Park in New York City.
Interview conducted by Holly
Kreider, March 2004
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